The blessings of being disliked
Some people will never like you! That is harsh but a fact.
No matter how sweet, nice or caring you are, there will always be people that simply are not interested in you, completely don't care about you or have a high dislike towards you.
Just like beauty is in the eye of the beholder, your personality in in the hands of the interpreter. Your cheerful bubbly outgoing personality might be perceived as annoying to one person and fabulously energetic to another. If you are quiet, someone could see you as awkward, dull or even unfriendly, while someone else finds you discreet, shy or classy. Take note that 95% of the time, being disliked has nothing to do with you! (the other 5% is the population that truly do have serious work to do on themselves).
Being disliked by someone does not reflect on you, your value or your worth! So never obsess over this issue, instead focus on all the positives you gain. Here are a few examples of the positives to gain from being disliked:
- You won't be wasting your time trying to keep people happy and stressing over the worry of their perception of you.
- You are surrounded by high quality and valuable people that compliment your life and who you are.
- You stay true to yourself, never having to adjust the beautiful you for anyone.
- Not bending over simply to be liked shows you have a strong personality and a healthy self esteem.
At the end of the day ask yourself this: What does someone not liking me change in my life?....
Nothing darling, absolutely NOTHING!!!
And sweetie you are just that much more fabulous because you turn nothing into something! ie: the above mentioned positives, and much more!
Remember to always stay fresh and true to yourself little bean lovers!
XOXO,
Ana
disclaimer: the images are not my property, they were found via google images.
No matter how sweet, nice or caring you are, there will always be people that simply are not interested in you, completely don't care about you or have a high dislike towards you.
Just like beauty is in the eye of the beholder, your personality in in the hands of the interpreter. Your cheerful bubbly outgoing personality might be perceived as annoying to one person and fabulously energetic to another. If you are quiet, someone could see you as awkward, dull or even unfriendly, while someone else finds you discreet, shy or classy. Take note that 95% of the time, being disliked has nothing to do with you! (the other 5% is the population that truly do have serious work to do on themselves).
Being disliked by someone does not reflect on you, your value or your worth! So never obsess over this issue, instead focus on all the positives you gain. Here are a few examples of the positives to gain from being disliked:
- You won't be wasting your time trying to keep people happy and stressing over the worry of their perception of you.
- You are surrounded by high quality and valuable people that compliment your life and who you are.
- You stay true to yourself, never having to adjust the beautiful you for anyone.
- Not bending over simply to be liked shows you have a strong personality and a healthy self esteem.
At the end of the day ask yourself this: What does someone not liking me change in my life?....
Nothing darling, absolutely NOTHING!!!
And sweetie you are just that much more fabulous because you turn nothing into something! ie: the above mentioned positives, and much more!
Remember to always stay fresh and true to yourself little bean lovers!
XOXO,
Ana
disclaimer: the images are not my property, they were found via google images.
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